Live Fast, Die Young

We live in absolute fear of growing up, dreading our first jobs and responsibilities. Adulthood begins and the fun is over. The best part of our lives is done in a blink of an eye and the rest is downhill from here. We mourn the loss of our innocence, stuck in the past, entertaining and revisiting the good old days “when we were just kids”. We prolong and chase our children years by ignoring and denying the reality of growing up. We find a new rush, a synthetic wonder, and joy by escaping reality with drugs, alcohol, sex, partying, random hookups, gossiping, adrenaline, and risk. We come alive again when we are close to death. We would rather live fast and die young than get old…


“And said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”

-Matthew 18:3

“But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God…”

– John 1:12


“Do well in school, work hard and get a degree so you can be successful!” “Suffer now, but just you wait, it will be worth it!” says the apathetic, unmotivated, unfulfilled, divorced, depressed, midlife crisis victim…so I can what? Live for the weekend, dread every Sunday night, sit in traffic, join the rat race, get home late, binge in front of the TV, wake up, and repeat? Forever longing for the grass that’s greener. Why would we choose to be sober when reality sucks? When the only thing we have to look forward to is an escape. When we need our security blankets of substances and material items to be comfortable in our own skin, relax, let loose, have a good time, be ourselves and open up.


This constant state of nostalgia has to stop. We risk missing out on the best parts of life when we don’t leave the past where it belongs. Jesus calls us to live like children with childlike faith and wonder. He encourages us to look up to the way kids view life, without clouded perceptions and lenses of the world. Somewhere along the way, we’ve decided that our options are limited and the world really isn’t our oyster. Why do we ever stop dreaming and asking one another what we want to be when we grow up? Let us rejoice and embrace life in all stages. Let us find the innocence, victories, fun, and joy in the here and now.


“Your Kingdom COME, Your will be done on EARTH as it is in Heaven.”

-Matthew 6:10

God does not want us to wait for the promises of afterlife to start living. We have to start claiming the miracles and promises God is begging to give us here and now, on earth as it is in Heaven. Jesus is a gentleman, He will never force His will on us. He gives us free will. He is waiting eagerly for us to jump at His infinite blessings. He is constantly dreaming over our lives and interceding that we would align ourselves with His vision and will of joy, love, and hope. If we would just trust in His plan, we would see that His ways are perfect and a life with Him surpasses all of our wildest dreams and imagination. It is time to live a life worth living for, for a heavenly purpose, one that inspires others and reaps the blessings of the victory that has already been won. As long as our desires coincide with His, we cannot fail. I dare us to dream big and set big goals for our lives here on earth.


“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” 

-Matthew 12:28-30

When we first get saved, the weight of the world is literally lifted off of our shoulders, but it doesn’t stop there. We are born again, filled with a new life, a holy purpose, a heavenly expectation for the promises that are here and those that await. We become the hands and feet towards the great renewal of all things. We join in the fight for a cause much bigger than ourselves, one that is worth fighting for, one that is worth living for. As we surrender ourselves to the power at the heart of the universe, the One that can only be seen with eyes like a child, we are overcome with delight as joy always comes in the morning. We no longer define our success and acceptance by the meer standard of the world but by the awestruck wonder of a God who would die and resurrect for us, who would stake our worth and reason for being on a cross. When we realize that death has no sting, the possibilities are endless and we run free like a child.


I made my first God-centered bucket list in December and thought I was aiming pretty high… but now I see how small my goals are when walking with such a big, extraordinary God. I have had the privilege to cross off a few things and am on the way to seeing many more fulfilled on the horizon. All because of Him. By sharing my list, it is my hope to encourage and inspire others to aim high and dream big. I also colored coded mine lol…

Pink – Education

Orange – Influence

Green – Financial

Yellow – Family

  • study abroad“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.” -2 Timothy 1:7
  • graduate from college – “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge,
        but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” -Proverbs 1:7
  • visit every country (10/193) – “And then he told them, “Go into all the world and preach the Good News to everyone.” -Mark 16:15
  • 1 million YouTube subscribers“Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity,” -Titus 2:7
  • publish a book“Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.” -1 Timothy 4:12
  • learn 3 languages“There are, perhaps, a great many kinds of languages in the world, and no kind is without meaning.” – 1 Corinthians 14:10
  • adopt a child“I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him.” – 1 Samuel 1:27
  • lead a missions trip – “It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant,” -Matthew 20:26
  • staff a YWAM base“Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves;” -Philippians 2:3
  • go on a missions trip with my husband“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” -Matthew 28:19-20
  • go on a missions trip with my kids“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” -Acts 1:8
  • buy my dad a car“Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” -1 Timothy 5:8
  • host Christmas for the entire family“We love because He first loved us.” -1 John 4:19
  • go backpacking with my bro“For this is what the Lord has commanded us: “ ‘I have made you a light for the Gentiles, that you may bring salvation to the ends of the earth.” -Acts 13:47
  • baptize someone –  For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit.” -1 Cor. 12:13
  • lead a Bible study – “You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; it is these that testify about Me;” -John 5:39
  • heal the sick – “Heal the sick, raise the dead, cure those with leprosy, and cast out demons. Give as freely as you have received!” -Matthew 10:8
  • take a hot air balloon ride“So I recommend having fun because there is nothing better for people in this world than to eat, drink, and enjoy life. That way they will experience some happiness along with all the hard work God gives them under the sun.” -Ecclesiastes 8:15
  • take my kids to Disney“You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth.” -Ecclesiastes 11:9
  • take my grandkids to Disney“And it is a good thing to receive wealth from God and the good health to enjoy it. To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life–this is indeed a gift from God.” -Ecclesiastes 5:19
  • life off 10%, give 90%“Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.” -Deuteronomy 15:10 “Every man shall give as he is able, according to the blessing of the LORD your God which He has given you.” -Deuteronomy 16:17
  • read the Bible cover to cover (halfway through) – “Now these were more noble-minded than those in Thessalonica, for they received the word with great eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see whether these things were so.” -Acts 17:11
  • have pics featured in National Geographic“O LORD, You are my God; I will exalt You, I will give thanks to Your name; For You have worked wonders, Plans formed long ago, with perfect faithfulness.” -Isaiah 25:1
  • help establish an animal sanctuary“A righteous man has regard for the life of his animal, But even the compassion of the wicked is cruel.” -Proverbs 12:10
  • free someone from human trafficking“The Spirit of the LORD is upon me, for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released, that the blind will see, that the oppressed will be set free” – Luke 4:18
  • go to Bethel church“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” -Matthew 18:20
  • go to a Christian festival“Sing to the LORD, all the earth; proclaim his salvation day after day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples.” -1 Chronicles 16:23-24
  • fast for 40 days – “Moses was there with the LORD forty days and forty nights without eating bread or drinking water. And he wrote on the tablets the words of the covenant—the Ten Commandments.” -Exodus 34:28


I hope you were encouraged by this post and I’d love to see some of your bucket lists!! If you would like to continue the conversation feel free to reach me via email at

Be blessed ❤


4 Comments Add yours

  1. Your Grandma says:

    You are a blessing to the world! Your Lucky Grandma

    Liked by 1 person

    1. ALEX CARTER says:

      I’m one lucky girl to call you my grandma❤️


  2. Nate L says:

    Always such pure truth. These posts fill me up so much! Incredible bucket list btw. All things are possible through Christ who strengthens us!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. ALEX CARTER says:

      Thank you I’m so happy you like them! Your comments are always so encouraging haha❤️ Yessss now you gotta make yours!


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